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How to Set Effective Goals That Guarantee Your Success
By Song
Chengxiang
In this article, I will be sharing with you the secrets to set effective
goals that will guarantee your success. I wish you can apply it into your
own goals setting. and wish all your goals come true.
So what is a goal? In my previous issues, I talked a lot about quantum
creation , and manifestation. You have already know that the universe will
always obey your order, take your instruction and turn it into the exact
things you want. Believe it or not, you are creating all the time, the only
difference is some of your creations are unconscious, and some are
conscious. Unfortunately, most of our unconscious creation are not what we
truly want, as a result, we are consistently creating what we don't want,
and end up with an unhappy life. A goal is something that helps you
eliminate unconscious creation, and turns it into conscious creation. A goal
is the order, or the command that you send out to the universe consciously,
and as a result, you will get what you consciously want, and ultimately the
ideal life that you enjoy living.
The process of goals setting is to help you get clear about want you
truly want, turn your unconscious goals in to conscious goals so that you
will be able to literally design your own life and have absolute control
about your life.
You may have heard a lot about goals setting, and tried many types of
goals setting programs. but most of them fail, The reason is not because the
programs don't work, the reason is because of your own beliefs and thinking.
I can tell you any goals setting program works, even the most simple one,
just by writing down your goals, you can achieve them. Why some people come
out from a goals setting workshop with great result, but others with little
or no results. This leads to today's topic, what makes a goal effective?
What makes a goal effective?
First , your goals must be in harmony with your higher purpose. I believe
that we all have a purpose in our life, this purpose has already be chosen
even before we were born. Do you find yourself have some special talent,
something that you enjoy to do , and you can it effortlessly, but others
find it difficult? Do you find there is something that you enjoy doing so
much such that the whole world suddenly disappear, the only thing exists is
you and the things you are doing. At those moments, you are on purpose.
Whenever you are in harmony with your purpose, you fell joy and happiness. A
most effective goal must be in harmony with your purpose, this is the only
way to ensure that you not only achieve your goal, but also enjoy the
process. The The process become enjoyable, and you also feel the fulfillment.
Yes you can achieve your goals without being in harmony with your purpose,
but you will never feel successful even you have all the accomplishments,
and all the achievement. The easiest way to find your purpose is to pay
attention to what you are good at, and what you are enjoy to do. If you
can't find it yourself, ask your parents, ask your friends, ask your
families. Everyone have a special talent, that is the reason you come to
this planet.
Secondly, Your goals must be beneficial to the world. I am not trying to
make myself honorable, but this is true, unless you goals are beneficial to
others, you will not find anyone to corporate with you, the universe will
also not work to your advantage. A selfish goal will never make it big. You
can see from the biggest success in the world, all these people had a
mission to make others life better, to help the world become a better place.
How much better our life have become because of the computer? This makes
Bill Gates become the richest man in the world. The more beneficial your
goal is to others, the more value it will produce, and the more achievable
it will become.
Thirdly, your goals must be supported by your own subconscious beliefs.
Do you have an experience that you set a goal, and you did everything to
make it happen, and at the last minute something happened, and it destroyed
everything, your desires suddenly disappeared, and you went back to your
comfortable zone? I did have this kind of experience, I did not know why
until I realized that I was holding some subconscious beliefs that are
contradictive to my goals. That means I wanted something, but my
subconscious mind didn't. Your contradictive subconscious beliefs will
create negative blocks that are extremely hard to break, this is why a
simple task sometimes becomes very big in your mind, you dare not to take
any action. An effective goal must be in harmony with your current
subconscious beliefs. You beliefs can change overtime due to your experience
and the books you read, but you can never achieve anything that is bigger
than your current beliefs. If your belief says that you can only make $1000
per month, you don't set a goal of making $1 million dollar per month. Set a
goal that is believable to your subconscious mind, once you have done $1000
dollar again and again, and you are so comfortable with it, your
subconscious mind will start to believe the possibility to make $10,0000
dollars per month, and your goals will grow bigger and bigger from there.
How to test whether your goal is supported by your subconscious beliefs
or not? I learned a simple test from Dr Robert Anthony, the legendary peak
performance expert. The test is very simple, you draw a vertical line on a
blank piece of paper, on one side, you write Yes, and on another, write no.
Take a piece of string, tie something on one end to make an pendulum, hold
your pendulum directly above the vertical line. Ask yourself the question "
Can I achieve the goal of ...". If you subconscious mind thinks it is
possible, your pendulum will go to the yes side, and if not, it will go to
the no side. I just want you to know that your subconscious mind does not
always agree with your conscious mind. This test can only be used as a
guide, don't rely too much on the result you see from this test, because it
won't be 100% accurate if you only use it once or twice. Dr Robert Anthony
has discussed in details about the conscious and subconscious contradictions
in his audio program "Know How to Be Rich", I am amazed by his deep
understanding of the human mind and the universal laws. You can get a copy
of this program from (http://www.theultimatesecrets.com/Robert.htm)
Fourthly, goals must be exact. As I have said that your goal was the
command you send to the universe, so for the universe to be able to execute
your command, it must understand exactly what you mean. " I want more money"
is only a wish, not a goal. The universe could not know what you want if you
just tell it "I want more money", OK, you want more money, here is one cent,
take it. Since you want more money, one cent more is also more. The universe
does not know how to fulfill your desire if you don't tell it exactly. A
real goal is something like this " I intend to manifest $10,000 dollars by
31 Jan 2005"," I intent to set up my company by 1 March 2005". Don't confuse
the universe by an unclear goal. Ask for something specific, and the
universe will end up giving you the specific result.
The fifth element for an effective goal is that your goals must be
compelling enough so that it will trigger your emotions every time you think
about them. Emotion creates motivation, motivation leads to action, and
action will give you result. How much result you get depends on the quality
of your emotion. Positive emotion create positive results, negative emotion
creates negative results. From scientific point of view, positive emotion
sends out positive vibration, and will attract back positive results with
the same vibration frequency. Be careful how you feel, because you are
creating the same results as you feel.
I hope this article gives you some ideas how to make an effective goal,
and you may want to modify a bit your goals to make them more effective.
Wish all you goals come true
Song ChengXiang is the editor "The Ultimate Success Secrets" Newsletter,
and the author of "Rapid Manifestation" online course.Sign up "The Ultimate
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